What Transgender Catholics and Their Allies Are Saying About “Dignitas Infinita”

How are transgender and nonbinary Catholics, their families, pastoral ministers, and allies responding to Dignitas Infinita, the Vatican document on human dignity released Monday that condemns “gender theory” and “sex change”?

Today, Bondings 2.0 features initial, brief reactions from eight LGBTQ+ or ally Catholics, listed below alphabetically by last name. Previous articles in our ongoing coverage and analysis of Dignitas Infinita can be found at the bottom of this post. For New Ways Ministry’s statement on the document, click here.

Phoebe Carstens

Phoebe Carstens (they/them) is a graduate student at Saint John’s School of Theology, Collegeville, and Bondings 2.0 contributor:

My initial response was one of resigned frustration and disappointment. I read paragraph after paragraph about the inviolable and inherent dignity of each human person, the need to not only treat each person with love and respect, but also to recognize them as dignified human beings in their uniqueness. I hoped that the existence and experiences of trans people would be rightfully included and considered. Unfortunately, no evidence of compassionate encounters with trans people is suggested by this document, which—rather than speaking to the lived reality of transgender people, Catholics included—instead labels gender transition as ‘a grave violation of human dignity,’ a false threat for the faithful to fear alongside poverty, human trafficking, and war.

Within this disappointment, however, I see a hopeful opportunity: the conviction that trans Catholics have so much to offer and teach our Church about self-exploration, dignified relationality, and embracing our God-given gifts. Each trans Catholic person I’ve met has described their gender journey as a process of discovery, with Jesus as the guiding hand, into a recognition of their own dignity, previously obscured by feelings of shame, heartache, and dysphoria. I take comfort in the fact that indeed trans people have always been here and always will be. We have always been loved and dignified by God. We always will be. And we are ready and waiting to share our gifts and wisdom with our Church, inspired by the dignity that God has given us. When the Church is willing to listen to us, we will have so much to share.

Deacon Ray Dever

Deacon Ray Dever is the father of an adult transgender woman and a retired Catholic deacon. He is a frequent contributor on LGBTQ issues for various national publications, including Bondings 2.0, and Catholic organizations, including the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops:

While Dignitas Infinita begins by beautifully proclaiming our belief in the infinite dignity that every human person possesses, it then goes on to effectively deny that very dignity to transgender and gender diverse individuals. The document, and the five-year process that produced it, reflect a continuing stubborn refusal to engage with transgender people, the scientists and scholars who understand them best, and the medical community that provides them with the gender-affirming care they need to live. Denying transgender people access to gender-affirming care is tantamount to denying them any possibility of living with the human dignity that this document claims to uphold.

Based on my personal and pastoral experience, denying that care can literally be the difference between life and death for many transgender individuals, who have a suicide rate several times higher than the general population. The sections of this document on “gender theory” and “sex change” are so uninformed and so far off the mark that I expect that they will be widely ignored by transgender individuals, their families, and their allies.

Mara Klein

Mara Klein (they/them) is a nonbinary member of the German Catholic Church’s Synodal Path process and queer rights activist:

Sadly, this new statement on gender studies and matters of gender diversity is very much in line with what we heard from the Vatican before. Yet again, the many voices of trans people of faith, as well as contemporary sciences are ignored completely in favor of an outdated, heteronormative, and self-referential anthropology. For many trans people, gender-affirming surgery is life saving. In my own experience, transitioning has brought me closer to God and enabled me to love myself and my neighbours more fully. To suggest that such a transition diminishes our dignity is cruel and dangerously ignorant, especially towards those who find themselves in a desperate situation between their love for the church and the love for the way they feel God created them. Seeing the opposition to gender-affirming care juxtaposed with approving surgical interventions for intersex people—which if performed without consent especially on minors often cause immense physical and psychological harm—exposes the underlying hypocrisy further. After first reading, I am filled with sorrow for myself and my trans siblings worldwide. On top of the rising hostility towards our communities, we are faced with a church that will not listen and refuses to see the beauty of creation that can be found in our life stories.

Maxwell Kuzma

Maxwell Kuzma is a transgender man living on a farm in rural Ohio who writes and speaks about affirming the dignity of LGBTQ+ people in all areas of life, but particularly within the Catholic church:

My greatest concern with this document is its dangerous implication that medical experts contest the importance of recognizing the transgender people’s lived reality and the evidence-based benefits of social and medical transition. Many of the  largely self-appointed “experts” who contest trans-positive perspectives  have only conducted biased studies that generate false data. I am also deeply concerned about the way intersex conditions were considered to be “resolved,” an expression that reveals a lack of engagement by the Vatican with actual intersex people.

My hope lies with the lived example of Pope Francis, who has demonstrated a welcoming care and support of transgender people. My hope is that the whole church will learn by his example how to extend that same respect, love, and support to the transgender people in our individual communities.

I am a transgender man and lifelong Catholic, and I know that my identity is a beautiful gift from God. The natural world reveals how much God loves diversity, and human diversity in particular is a uniquely precious gift that goes beyond any gender binary to reveal the beautiful wholeness of creation through Divine Love.

Benjamin Oh

Benjamin Oh (he/him) is Co-Chair of Equal Voices, the national Australian ecumenical LGBTIQA+ organization, and Chair of Rainbow Catholics Interagency Australia, a national body for LGBTIQA-affirming Catholic ministries:

The document clearly exposes the gap in the drafters’ knowledge and understanding of LGBTQ+ realities. What is most saddening, however, is the document’s lack of compassion for our trans, gender diverse and nonbinary siblings, demonstrated in how the authors write in dehumanizing, impersonal ways about that community, detached from their lived experiences. I am very concerned that this document will fuel more ignorance, violence, discrimination and abuse directed at LGBTQ+ people in our church and society, especially in communities where our trans, gender diverse, and nonbinary siblings are already attacked. This document seemingly ignores report after report showing how people subjected to transphobia are overrepresented in suicide accounts and poor health outcomes. We instead need to affirm and celebrate the dignity and amazing faith of our trans and gender diverse siblings, and in this task, the document has failed on both accounts.

James Pawlowicz

James Pawlowicz is a project manager, volunteer, and outdoorsman who is following God’s mysterious call to religious life in the church despite inadmissibility due to being transgender:

As a first impression, I found Dignitas Infinita disappointingly unoriginal, yet relievingly insipid. My favorite parts, on which I hope to reflect further, were the pervasive theme of our interconnectedness and the impossibility of realizing our fullness of dignity in the image of God without one another, and the examination of “digital violence.”

On the other hand, the arguments around gender, as the product of five years of development by a Vatican dicastery, underwhelm. Yet they leave me with two points of hope. First, the DDF used pointedly soft, indirect language in describing their concerns with “sex change interventions:” they say that it “risks threatening the unique dignity” of the created person (emphasis added). A threat is a matter of possibility, not certainty. So, too, is a risk. In this, I sense a door not totally closed. Second, given what is contained in these paragraphs, I have a firm conviction and divine hope that truth will prevail. It may take time, but if we continue to present the compelling evidence of science and the undeniable good fruits of our lives, truth in the hand of love will drive out ignorance and fear.

Victoria Rodriguez

Victoria Rodriguez (she/her) is a trans mother with three kids and bisexual Catholic. She is involved with several Catholic LGBTQ+ groups in Spain and elsewhere, including Ichthys Sevilla, PADIS+G, CVX, Cursillos de cristiandad, and serves on the Global Network of Rainbow Catholics’ board of directors:

The many good aspects of Dignitas Infinita are sadly overshadowed by a few very bad points in the document. The main problem is that church leaders are not following their own teachings. For example, paragraph 64 of this declaration echoes  proposal 15k of the Synod Assembly’s report, which states that dialogue about controversial doctrine, like this one, “should also involve people directly affected by the matters under consideration,” which clearly have not been done.

If the authors had done so, they would know that trans and nonbinary people are living the life that God dreamed for them. That God made them eunuchs from the womb of their mothers (Matt 19:11-12) and they are just in pursuit of the name God gave to them. They would know that to every trans person it feels like an impossible dream to be able to transition their gender due the many barriers involved—and yet, after transitioning, they know that it is only thanks to God who helped them to overcome all the barriers.

St. Catherine of Siena’s words, “Be whoever God wants you to be, and you will set the world on fire,” could not be truer than when referring to trans people just following the life that God intended for them. Dignitas Infinita is a big reminder of why we need to start opening more dialogues and ending the many misunderstandings that exist around LGBTQI persons inside the Church. If those dialogues would exist, the Church would have never made a blunder like this one. And it is not just trans and nonbinary persons who deserve better treatment; the Church itself deserves better by following its teachings more faithful. Catholics deserve a Church where, as Pope Francis says, “everyone, everyone, everyone” can feel accepted and in dignity. I pray that the Church can and will do better.

Michael Sennett

Michael Sennett is a Catholic trans man who is currently pursuing his M.A. in Pastoral Care at Fordham University, New York, with the goal of supporting queer people of faith through encounter and dialogue, and a member of New Ways Ministry’s Advisory Board:

Dignitas Infinita was released on the Feast of the Annunciation—a significance that cannot be ignored. Hearing of God’s favor, transgender Catholics, in the same vein as Mary, might tremble in disbelief. Deemed unworthy by our respective societies, God chooses us. Mary is faced with an impossible situation. Answering God’s call doesn’t alleviate her fear, rather her leap of faith cultivates hope. Faith might feel impossible at this moment. Christ is still there beckoning us to take the leap and follow him. He waits because he has never left our side. When you quietly came out to yourself, Jesus heard and held you. He listened to every name you considered. Christ guides your hands on the day you take hormones. Jesus heals each bloody incision of gender affirming surgeries. He rejoices in our care which honors our holy authenticity. Christ carries the light of hope to our faith. Leap back into the arms of God who favors us and celebrates our dignity. Nothing is impossible for God who calls us to holy hope and authenticity.

Yunuen Trujillo

Yunuen Trujillo (she/her) is author of LGBT Catholics: A Guide for Inclusive Ministry, Religious Formation Coordinator (Spanish) for the Catholic Ministry with Lesbian and Gay Persons for the Archdiocese of Los Angeles, and a member of New Ways Ministry’s Advisory board:

On LGBTQ issues, Dignitas Infinita falls short. While clearly and unequivocally stating that the principle of human dignity applies to all human beings regardless of sexual orientation, it fails to include the fact that it also applies to all humans regardless of gender identity (which it does). This omission makes one thing clear: the understanding of the concepts of gender and gender identity is clearly lacking. By lumping all LGBTQ people under the umbrella of sexual orientation, it fails to recognize the mere existence of trans people. In this regard, Dignitas Infinita clearly shows what many of us know: the Church’s understanding of gender identity is heavily underdeveloped.

Robert Shine (he/him), New Ways Ministry, April 10, 2024

6 replies
  1. Dr Claire Jenkins
    Dr Claire Jenkins says:

    Clearly many feel, like I do, that the church doesn’t understand transgender people. The great sadness is that the church doesn’t want to listen to us.

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  2. JOHN HILGEMAN
    JOHN HILGEMAN says:

    I grew up in the Archdiocese of St. Louis, whose bishops once owned slaves.

    There are perhaps 5600 Catholic bishops in the world. There are perhaps 1.3 billion Catholics in the world. According to Catholic teaching, the people are the Church. Francis has called for synodality – voices of as many as possible being heard. The Book of Acts reports Peter quoting Joel in saying the Spirit will be poured out on all – male and female, young and old, slave and free.

    Male bishops may claim to speak for God. But they are servants of the people, not indisputable voices of God. If they speak on their own without regard for the Spirit present in the whole of the Church and even the whole of the world; and if their words are in conflict with the reality of their people, then their words – for all the pomp and seriousness with which they speak – are without authenticity and can even be harmful and destructive.

    The lives and experiences of transgender people carry the weight of authenticity, whether the words of bishops agree with them or condemn them.

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  3. Aidan Whittel
    Aidan Whittel says:

    It is very difficult to express in words the sense of loss and hurt that permeates my soul after reading the latest release of the Vatican.

    In 2024, the Vatican has once again told the world they alone know who is and is not worthy of human dignity and God’s love.
    I must be reading a different version of scripture!! God loves ALL. We are ALL made in God’s image!!! Labels are man made not from God!!

    I am a 62-year-old man of transgender experience who grew up in extremely Catholic religious home. In fact, growing up, my father was a deacon, and when my mother passed at young age he became a Roman Catholic priest. From day one I knew exactly who I was. As a young child, I was very gender non-conforming in fact gender was not a part of my world. I was a happy young child who didn’t care what clothes they wore, who they played with or what toys they played with. But then puberty hit. After I started puberty, I was told who I was. When I exerted myself and wanted to stand in the boys line, play football at recess, or wear pants as part of my uniform, my existence was negated. When I was 12, I attempted suicide because I knew I didn’t belong in the world I was growing up in. A long story of betrayal, trauma and sexual trauma follows this but I won’t get into here. The bottom line is, I let the voices of those influenced by the Catholic churches teachings speak louder then my own voice. As a masculine transgender, non-conforming person in order to be true to myself I had to learn to heal the trauma from the sexual abuse I experienced, the mental abuse I experienced, and the hurt I grew up in. I needed to turn my back on religion and the Catholic Church in order to become one with my spiritual being. I am a flawed human being. But I was made in God‘s image just the way I am. I have been more of a Christian my entire life than the pedophile priest that was abusing my classmates in high school and only slapped on the wrist. I am not intrinsically disordered as the Catholic Church has tried to make me feel my entire life. The local Catholic diocese did not have to pay millions of dollars in retribution for me. Yet, I am not worthy of human dignity?

    My entire life I learned to make excuses for the church. I hung on being Catholic until about four or five years ago. I too looked at these documents produced by the US Catholic conference of Bishops or the Vatican and always said oh but they’ll get there someday I just need to hang on. I can only help change the church from within.

    But I ask all of you still hanging on, does making excuses and saying oh I see this light of hope and they will get there, make you feel whole and complete? Because it only reminds me they see me as less than deserving of God’s love.

    As a simple human being, I deserve so much more than this. I learned to heal myself. My spiritual connection to my creator, and the world has never been better. I know who I am, I know my place in the world, and I finally have found that sense of peace. The publishing of documents such as the one the Vatican put out on Monday, reminds me of all the hurt and loss I have felt, and it triggers all those old feelings of being other or less than. This has no place in my life anymore. And I can no longer say I am a part of the Catholic Church and excuse the ignorance. No human being has the right to say who is and who is not worthy of human dignity and God’s love.

    My caution to you who choose to hang on is to make sure you do not lose yourself in the hanging on!

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    • JP
      JP says:

      Hello “Little Fire”,

      I’m with you and I feel your pain along this long road. I can’t even imagine what you went through given what you refer to in your humble words… but I can also see, with utter amazement, your enduring embers.

      For context, I’ve been away from the Catholic Church for some 25 years, since Catholic-lead demonstrations in France against the “PACS” in 1999, a civil union for gay couples: At the time, not a single bishop denounced the harsh, violent slogans.

      For some reason, about a year ago, I felt like I was called back “home” to my baptismal church, only to discover in dismay how little progress had been made in those 25 years.

      As I looked into this situation throughout last year, somehow I persevered in hope. That is, until to the release of the October report of the ongoing synod on synodality, where we LGBT people weren’t even mentioned…

      After slowly digesting that, I had a moment of relief when Fiducia Supplicans was released in December. However, I saw the push back coming from all corners of the Church against this idea that our LGBTQ+ couples receive a blessing with more restrictions than for blessing someones’s dog.

      And so here I am, after this new “Infinite Dignity” declaration, back to square one, stunned… as though nothing moved really.

      I understand your frustration all too well. So now it feels as if God called me back “home” a year ago only to show me that this “issue” won’t be solved in my lifetime.

      In line with your comments, it feels like it’s time to move on, and rest in the peace afforded by Jesus that we can partake in the New Covenant, whether in this instructional church or beyond.

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  4. John Calhoun
    John Calhoun says:

    To even attempt to give things of value to those who will not understand or appreciate them is not merely foolhardy but dangerous. The default position for many is to see LGBT+ experience as “weeds amongst the wheat” – not to merit attention, interest and inquiry but to be resisted as signs of disorderly forces abroad. Not to be considered a work of God but of disruption. Caution with such persons is wise – in or outside of Church.

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