Third Sunday of Advent: From Despair to Hope, From Fear to Joy

This Advent season, Bondings 2.0 invites you to take a spiritual journey through guided reflections on the readings of the season’s four Sundays.  The reflection exercise below can be done individually, with a close friend, or in a faith-sharing group. The reflections are specially designed for LGBTQ people and allies.  

These Advent exercises are part of  New Ways Ministry’s new “Journeys” series: a collection of  Scripture selections, reflection questions, prayers, and video which was went live on our website in early November.    You can download PDFs of  the Advent reflections and the other Journeys exercises from our website.

We hope these spiritual aids will help all of you on your own journeys.

If you would like to share some of your reflections with other Bondings 2.0 readers, please feel free to post whatever responses you have in the “Comments” section of this post.

Third Sunday of Advent

On May 31, 2018, TIME magazine carried the article, “How the Nazi Regime’s Pink Triangle Symbol Was Repurposed for LGBTQ Pride.” In the article Olivia B. Waxman writes, “Just as the Nazis forced Jewish people to wear a yellow Star of David, they forced people they labeled as gay to wear inverted pink triangles (or ‘die Rosa-Winkel’). Those thus branded were treated as “the lowest of the low in the camp hierarchy,” as one scholar put it.

Waxman adds, “More recently, pink triangles have been visible during gay rights demonstrations worldwide…” and what was once a historical trademark of persecution and discrimination is now a patent of LGBT survival and pride.

The liturgical color for the third Sunday of Advent is pink symbolized by the pink candle that is lit on advent wreaths instead of purple. The third Sunday of Advent is called Gaudete Sunday; “Gaudete” means “Rejoice.” The scripture texts for this Sunday energetically shout-out the promises of hope (from despair), restoration (from destruction), liberation (from oppression) and joy (from fear) giving all a reason to proudly wear the color pink and rejoice!

SCRIPTURE: Zephaniah 5:1-4

Shout for joy, O daughter Zion!
Sing joyfully, O Israel!
Be glad and exult with all your heart,
O daughter Jerusalem!
Yahweh has removed the judgment against you
and turned away your enemies;
Israel, Yahweh is among you as ruler,
you have no further misfortune to fear.
On that day, it shall be said to Jerusalem:
Fear not, O Zion, be not discouraged!
for Yahweh, your God, is in your midst,
a warrior to keep you safe;
who will rejoice over you with gladness,
and renew you with love,
who will sing joyfully because of you,
as one sings at festivals.


LUKE 3:10-18

The crowds asked John the Baptist, “What should we do?”
John replied, “Whoever has two cloaks
should share with the person who has none.
And whoever has food should do likewise.”
Even tax collectors came to be baptized and they said to him,
“Teacher, what should we do?”
He answered them, “Stop collecting more than what is prescribed.”
Soldiers also asked him, “And what is it that we should do?”
He told them, “Do not practice extortion,
do not falsely accuse anyone, and be satisfied with your wages.”

Now the people were filled with expectation,
and all were asking in their hearts whether John might be the Christ.
John answered them all, saying, “I am baptizing you with water,
but one mightier than I is coming whose sandals I am not fit to untie.
This One will baptize you with the Holy Spirit and fire.
His winnowing fan is in his hand to clear the threshing floor
and gather the wheat into the barn,
but the chaff will be burnt with unquenchable fire.”

Exhorting them in many other ways, John preached good news to the people.




  1. In the Gospel, the gathered crowds, filled with expectation of the coming Messiah, ask John the Baptist, “What should we do?” and John’s exhortations suggest that all people have a role to play in God’s Reign according to their status in life. As an LGBT person or ally, how is God permitting (or even asking for) your cooperation in the divine plan?
  2.   The origins of the Christmas tradition of the Jesse tree lie in the words of Isaiah 11:1 – “A shoot shall come out of the stock of Jesse, and a branch shall grow out of his roots.” Decorated during the season of Advent,  the Jesse tree ornaments tell the story of God in the Hebrew Scriptures, connecting the Advent season with the faithfulness of God across thousands of years of history. Some of the typical ornaments on a Jesse tree could be a rainbow, ark, coat of many colors, lamb, or the burning bush. To connect the season of Advent with LGBT history, what ornaments would you design for the Jesse tree to symbolize God’s faithfulness to (or affirmation of) the LGBT community?
  3. Do you think of God as rejoicing over you with gladness, as the prophet Zephaniah writes? Why or why not? What would it be like to hear God sing a joyful song over you? How might it transform your life?
  4. In today’s Second Reading, the Apostle Paul writes, “Then the peace of God which surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.” How do you envision this peace of God for you and the LGBT community? What struggles do you currently see as needing most attention?
  5. From the course of history (biblical, traditional or present) who are Advent saints for you – people, living or dead – whose contributions have led you to the Christ and made a difference in your life as an LGBT person or ally? How do you choose to remember and bless them this Gaudete Sunday? How would you like to be remembered and blessed?


Remembering our sacred history and our LGBT saints

You who personally stood up and were counted and who made a difference for all of us today – we remember you.

You who by your personal act of coming out challenging the system or changing it from within – we remember you.

You who actively shared your ideas with broad audiences or quietly affected individuals one at a time – we remember you.

You who helped others understand us or made ours a better community – we remember you.

You who by your courageous actions brought us forward even under pressures of physical pain, torture and death – we remember you.

You who braved social estrangement or chose integrity over loss of family, loved ones or friends – we remember you.

You who moved us all a little closer to a world that more fully celebrates love.


Your contributions are remembered and you are remembered.

You give us a reason to rejoice.

Your memory is a blessing.

We thank our loving God for your witness and sacrifice.

                                       – Adapted from a prayer of Rabbi Heather Miller



Being branded as the “lowest of the low” in not uncommon to the LGBT story in the Catholic Church. With magisterial condemnations and ecclesial homophobia, the trademarks of persecution and discrimination still sting. But what if there were already a reason to “shout for joy… sing joyfully… and exalt”?

In the video below, the women on ABC TV’s show, THE VIEW, explore just that!

Dwayne Fernandes, New Ways Ministry, December 16, 2018

3 replies
  1. Friends
    Friends says:

    Thank you so much for these beautiful Advent meditations. Please allow me to share with everyone an absolutely stunning musical meditation on the spirit of Advent. This link will take you to a YouTube excerpt from Leonard Bernstein’s monumental “Mass” — which is surely one of his finest compositions. Here’s the direct URL:

    May all of us be blessed equally by the love that we have received, and by the love that we have given gratefully in return.

  2. Don E Siegal
    Don E Siegal says:

    Die Rosa-Winkel

    “The Nazis…forced people they labeled as gay to wear inverted pink triangles (or ‘die Rosa-Winkel’). Those thus branded were treated as ‘the lowest of the low in the camp hierarchy’” (Wolfgang Röll, MA 2010)

    The really sad part of this story is, when the allies liberated the concentration camps, all those accused of being gay by the Nazis were not liberated. Instead, there were turned over to the German civil authorities to continue serving out their full sentences!

  3. Don E Siegal
    Don E Siegal says:

    What Should We Do?

    I used this reflection question for the RCIA gathering for Gaudete (The Third Sunday in Advent). I posed it in this way: If you posed that question to John the Baptist today, how do you think he would answer?

    If I asked that question as an LGBT person, I believe his response would be something like: Don’t be so fast to label those who disagree with you as bigots, remain part of the faithful, and show the naysayers that you do have gifts to offer to the Church.


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