Bishop Censored for Acknowledging the Reality That LGBT Families Exist

A bishop’s recognition of lesbian and gay families has been removed from a video produced in anticipation of the 2018 World Meeting of Families (WMF) scheduled for Ireland this August.

Bishop David O’Connell, an Irish-born auxiliary bishop of Los Angeles, California, participated in the “Amoris: Let’s Talk Family! Let’s Be Family!” video series, part of catechetical materials created for parish discussion groups ahead of the event. The Irish Independent reported on how part of his comments in the videos have now been censored:

“In the original video clip, [O’Connell] stated: ‘Pope Francis, he gets it. He gets it that our society has changed so much in the last couple of generations.’

“‘We have all sorts of configurations of families now, whether it’s just the traditional family of mum and dad together, or it’s now mum on her own or dad on his own, or a gay couple raising children, or people in second marriages. No matter what the configuration of the family is, the call is still to adults to think about how to provide the best, most loving, faithful environment for children possible.’

“However, people accessing the video clip now will no longer be able to hear these words because they have been removed.”

You can view the uncensored version of the video here:

Removing O’Connell’s recognition that lesbian and gay couples exist and are raising children comes soon after right-wing critics successfully pressured WMF organizers to remove LGBT-related photos and a reference to same-gender relationships from print materials.

A WMF spokesperson said only that “the wrong version of the video…was inadvertently uploaded for a short time,” and the “correct version is now in place.” The spokesperson also referenced other places in the video series where LGBTQ issues were raised. She is correct that “Amoris: Let’s Talk Family! Let’s Be Family!” does include both a lesbian Catholic and the Catholic mother of a gay child, as Bondings 2.0 reported last month. WMF organizers have yet to explain why LGBT-related photos and a paragraph on same-gender unions were removed from print materials.

Former Irish President Mary McAleese, who had spoken out when the print materials were censored, again questioned whether the WMF would be truly inclusive of LGBT people and their families. She said deleting O’Connell’s words was “a strong message that they [LGBT families] will not be welcome to attend the Dublin World Meeting of Families.” She added that organizers should “faithfully honour the Pope’s inclusive vision of family and do nothing to further marginalise those already deeply hurt by Church-generated homophobia.” McAleese is a long-standing advocate for LGBT equality in the church.

Bishop O’Connell’s recognition of lesbian and gay families added to other church leaders’ desire for WMF to be an inclusive event. Cardinal Christoph Schönborn of Vienna said that same-gender unions were “part of a new narrative around the family in Ireland,” and needed to be included in the event. Bishop Brendan Leahy of Limerick said last year that “everyone must be made feel welcome” in 2018.

It is striking that simply acknowledging reality led to censorship. Bishop O’Connell offered no moral judgment on the fact that lesbian and gay people are partnered and raising children, but said only that such families exist and the Church needs to respond to them. The censorship raises several questions. Is such an acknowledgement of reality really that threatening to organizers? Why was his acknowledgement removed while two lay voices related to LGBT families remained? What are WMF organizers’ true intentions when it comes to LGBT Catholics and their families?

The last WMF in Philadelphia in 2015 was quite restrictive in how it addressed homosexuality. Such restrictions would be a mistake this year, and would not be in keeping with Pope Francis’ trajectory for the Church. With multiple LGBT controversies now hanging over the WMF, it is incumbent on organizers to provide clear and honest answers about how they will handle LGBT issues during the event.

Mary McAleese will be the keynote speaker for the “Voices of Faith” event this coming Thursday, which marks International Women’s Day. That event will also feature Ssenfuka Joanita Warry, a lesbian Catholic activist from Uganda. For those readers interested in watching the “Why Women Matter” livestream on March 8, 2018 at 8:00am EST, you can find more information at or by clicking here for a flyer.

Robert Shine, New Ways Ministry, March 6, 2018

8 replies
  1. John Hilgeman
    John Hilgeman says:

    Looks like it’s time for some direct action. For LGBTQ families to show up and begin distributing the uncensored documents and videos to all the attendees.

  2. Vera Nugent
    Vera Nugent says:

    Looks like this conference on families is building to be a mockery. What a shame to soil the potential the conference has. Will it be conducted entirely by male celebates as well? What a waste!

  3. Janelle Lazzo
    Janelle Lazzo says:

    It is interesting but very sad that some people in a position to do so would edit out LGBT families as if they did not exist or belong in an honest discussion of the family. That is like telling someone standing in front of you that because you would rather not have them there, they are not there. One wonders what our Creator, Who is Love Personified, makes of this.

  4. Richard Boyle, OSM
    Richard Boyle, OSM says:

    I wonder who the prelate or bishop will be who finally dares to buck raw authority, risk his position, and proclaim LOUDLY the right or righteous thing?


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