Will Catholic Agencies in Maryland Avoid the New Marriage Equality Law?

A week after Maryland became one of the first states to enact marriage equality through a ballot initiative, some Catholic leaders in the state are starting to consider how the new law will affect the church’s social service agencies, such as adoption programs, which accept state funding.

An article in the Archdiocese of Baltimore’s Catholic Review newspaper examines how several other states which have legalized marriage equality witnessed the withdrawal of Catholic involvement with state contracts, particularly in the area of adoption, rather than agree to live by the new law:

“Catholic Charities in Washington, D.C.; Boston; and San Francisco dropped adoption and foster care services after same-sex marriage’s legalization would have required them to place children with same-sex couples in order to continue government contracts for those services. In Washington, Catholic Charities also discontinued benefits for employee’s spouses.

“Catholic Charities in Illinois dioceses also stopped providing adoption and foster care services after the state began recognizing same-sex civil unions in 2011. Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Peoria, Ill., withdrew from state-funded social services contracts altogether.”

The Maryland Catholic Conference (MCC) is expressing concern that Catholic institutions in the state will be faced with a choice about whether or not to accept state funds:

“ ‘According to the actual legislation, religious organizations that accept any sort of state or federal funds are excluded from religious liberty protections,’ the MCC said. ‘They are not exempt, and there are no protections for individuals. Marylanders should not be fooled into thinking we can redefine marriage and still protect religious liberty.’ ”

Surely, Catholic leaders do not have to withdraw ALL support for children in adoption and foster programs as a way of avoiding the new marriage equality law.  It is ironic that church leaders who so forcefully argue against marriage equality as a way of protecting children are now willing to put children at terrible risk because these same leaders refuse to find some creative way to find a workable solution.  The “all or nothing” approach damages not only children, but also Catholic leaders’ credibility who should be people in dialogue with the world around them, not avoiding it.  It would be a true scandal if children become the victims of this struggle.

The Catholic Review story included a quote from your humble blogger , calling for the bishops to make a humanitarian choice in this matter:

“Francis DeBernardo, a coordinator for same-sex marriage advocates Catholics for Marriage Equality for Maryland [and executive director of New Ways Ministry], said it would be ‘a shame’ if any Catholic services in Maryland such as adoption were withdrawn due to the law.

“ ‘I don’t think that there’s anything wrong with allowing gay and lesbian couples to adopt. I think it’s a question of equality and fairness,’ he said. ‘The hierarchy of Maryland is going to have to decide what is more important – the protection of children, or the defense of their definition of “civil marriage,” which the voters of Maryland have decided has a new definition, and whether or not they would like to continue to take (state) government funds, or fund their programs on their own. ‘ ”

If Catholic leaders are unwilling to work within the law of the land, they should not sacrifice the welfare of children to do so.  If they feel they cannot work within the law, they should find a way to fund their programs so as not to let the most vulnerable among us be harmed.

Better still would be if they could open their hearts and minds to the reality that lesbian and gay couples can parent as well as heterosexual couples.  All research points to this truth.  Instead of looking at this matter as an ideological struggle, Catholic leaders should view it, instead, as a learning opportunity to educate themselves better about the reality of lesbian and gay lives.

–Francis DeBernardo, New Ways Ministry


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  1. duckman44625
    duckman44625 says:

    Unfortunately, a few years past when Washington, D.C. enacted same sex marriage, the Archbishop of D.D. lost no time in carrying through on his threat…withdrawing Catholic Charities’ programs which serve “the least of my (our) brethren”…the poor, homeless, children, etc. Such a mean spirited action/man is far from the Kingdom of Heaven. He will answer to the Holy Spirit. Lets hope the hierarchy in Maryland do not follow this same path for it certainly the road of the anti-Christ.

  2. Ryan Sattler
    Ryan Sattler says:

    A great comment that tells us, we still have a lot of work to do. Let us pray that our Church leaders will accept the fact that lesbian and gay couples are making wonderful, loving parents.

  3. pjnugent
    pjnugent says:

    After our ability to conceive “expired”, we became foster parents in a then new program of Catholic Charities of Washington DC, placing new born children with foster families for the few months they awaited adoption. We hosted six new born babies in that program over about four years. This was roughly 32 years ago. As it turns out, two of those babies were so-called unadoptable as they had health/development issues that could not be diagnosed with certainty. Accordingly, we were allowed to adopt them to join our five. They did have health/development issues as it turned out, and I dread to think what would have happened to them had then been thrust into the infamous District of Columbia foster care morass.
    While only God can judge when one has sinned, the actions of the bishops of those dioceses which have abandon foster care and adoption services just to avoid a legitimate law, certainly seem to have all the scars of sinful activity. I would say those bishops and other officials who participated in the decisions to abandon those families in need of services are guilty of grave sin. It is at least wanton, horribly irresponsible and unchristian. What happened to Jesus call to house, feed, clothe and love all persons in need?
    And now officials of dioceses serving Maryland parishes – Washington DC, Baltimore and Wilmington, DE (my diocese) – are said to be considering “avoiding” the new law. There are quite actually endangering the wellbeing, in fact, the very lives of those children who they would now refuse to aid. These are desperate families and helpless children they would abandon. I would paraphrase some of the bishops threatening those of us who support marriage equality. They must consider their actions carefully as abandoning these families and children could have grave consequence for their eternal salvation. God help them.


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